Fiercely loving moms back to themselves
Moms can be happy, too.
And this is just the beginning...
Imagine. A life where these words are what you feel.
Every Day. As a Mom. As a Lover. As a Woman.
These are the words I desire to live by. I remember when I encountered the list of all the challenging feelings, my world opened up.
It was so powerful to have names for all the crap I felt.
Now, I’ve made a list of beautiful words.
I am so ready to focus on these words instead.
Hi, I'm Velma.
I’m a parent coach and a pleasure coach. I’m the former Executive Director of Hand In Hand Parenting, a 7Directions Dance Ceremony facilitator, and a Pleasure Coach certified through the Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts. I’m also the mom of a delightful teenager, in a neurospicy family. From my training and experience, I’ve seen how hurts get stuck in our bodies and in the bodies of our kids. I’ve also learned how to get them unstuck so that fun and freedom and our full authentic selves can flow forth.
How She Rolls
Velma Values...
Radical Approval Every single one of us is doing our best in every single moment.
Fierce devotion to your desires For when you're getting in your own way.
Transparency Authenticity. Honesty. Presence.
Sisterhood You got this. We got this together.
Pleasure playful, fun, sexy, light, erotic, Ooooh yes. Centered.
Curiosity Tell me more.
TRANSFORMATIONS
Did you know that you’re The Best?
Seriously. You’re amazing.
You don’t hear that enough.
To help remedy that, here’s a little Mad Lib love letter to you - the awesome Mama that you are! Please sign up here to get a letter you can personalize!
You deserve to hear how wonderful you are. Over and over again.
Question.
Are you pleasure powered?
Pleasure Powered Parenting is the stand that moms get to be happy, too.
Imagine. Enjoying Motherhood.
Imagine. Being the woman you know you are.
All the time.
How I Can Help
How to Reclaim You
Two minute Tools to reconnect to the radiant woman within the mother you’ve become.
Join Velma for a 90 minute live workshop and learn some simple tools to begin enjoying your life right now.
$150, offered monthly.
Martyr Free Mothering
A 4-month facilitated circle for powerhouse moms supporting each other in letting go of rescuing and over-doing to reconnect to pleasure and self-trust.
Pleasure and Parenting Coaching Package
You don't have to lose the core of who you are as a woman on the sacrificial altar of motherhood.
Get the mindset, tools and support you need to be the mother AND woman you want to be.
I’ll meet you with radical approval, a fierce devotion to your desires (even if you don’t know what they are yet), and the ability to trust the process (even if you don’t).
I’ll help you grow confidence in yourself, learn to say no and find ease at saying yes to yourself. Your family needs you too.
I promise that you can enjoy parenting, love being a mom and feel the spark that is uniquely you.
We’ll create space to feel the feelings and move them through the body so they’re not stuck on the brain.If you could have thought your way through this, you would have already.
Weekly calls include customized tools for your personal situation. Our primary focus will be on you as a woman, and if you need help with your kids, I got you there, too!
1:1 sessions, Six session commitment.
Every two weeks for three months.
BONUS: WhatsApp community, and asynchronous coaching.
Paid in Full: $1200
Paid monthly: $400 for three months.
Velma is the kind of pleasure coach any girl needs 🩷 in her life!
As a woman in my late forties, I was looking for answers and for help. When it comes to Womens sexuality, pleasure and desire, we feel so much shame for WANTING! It’s as if women are not allowed to want to feel alive, energized, sexual, or exploratory.
Velma helped me get in touch with the playful part of me that I’ve forgotten about; she helped me give myself permission again to actually be ME.
As a coach, Velma is fully present, wise, playful, curious, informed and non-judgmental. She is also forward- thinking .. and she loves to dance! Velma is the kind of pleasure coach any girl needs 🩷 in her life!
-Michaela, 48 years old woman
I received a medicine chest full of great treasure.
In working with Velma I received a medicine chest full of great treasure. She welcomed ALL of me–especially the parts I saw as bad or shameful--helping me soften and come home to myself. She was playful and nurturing, yet gently challenging me to show up fully to reclaim pleasure and self love. Most importantly, she embodies this work and it is clear this is her calling.
-Tami, Age 52
-Dana, Age 56
CURIOUS MINDS ARE ASKING...
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Do I really need to spend money on something like this?
If your child needed extra tutoring or coaching to get to a basic functional level in academics, would you hesitate? Is it ok for you to need a little extra support to get to a basic level of functional satisfaction and happiness in your life? Would your family be happier if you were happy? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then yes, spending money on something like this is worth it. You’re worth it.
I’m overwhelmed and too busy already. How much time is this going to take out of my week / add to my schedule? Is there homework?
How much time each day do you spend being overwhelmed, stressed, or exhausted? Would you be willing to trade some of that for some time having a little fun? If you sign up to work with me, it will be a minimum of 90 minutes a week. Beyond that, my recommendation is that you plan on showing up for yourself at least five minutes a day.
Are we going to talk about pussy?
Ooooh! I hope so! Because our pussies are the source of our aliveness and spark. Our pussies are our deep intuition. And the more we can celebrate the source of creation and life, the more in flow and joy we will be in our lives. If you want a head start on pussy talk, check out Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer.
I’m afraid of signing up for this and then not having the time or energy required to get the results.
That may happen. And that is what resistance looks like. Often, when we’re on the verge of making a change, we become very creative at finding ways to avoid the work involved in making the change. Resistance can show up in many forms, and it is so, sooo welcome. We can work with whatever you bring. I got you.
